So much negativity in the black community, when will it ever end?

When will we learn to work together instead of work against one another? When will black men and black women stop degrading, disrespecting, and putting down one another? When will we stop playing the victim card and realizing that in order for us to get anywhere in this world, you need to rise above your circumstances and set your mind out to do the things that you want to do in life? When will we learn that you…

There seems to be so much negativity going on. People around me seem to really be going through it. I have friends that are breaking up with boyfriends, people are getting laid off, some people are struggling with money. So much negativity! I wish everyone well and I pray that things get better. Life is hard, but don't let it bring you down. I know that lately I have allowed myself to swim in negativity and all it is doing…

So, I feel like I'm at a point in my life where I don't even feel like addressing the stupidity of others. I realize that it is just pointless and won't change anything. There are certain things I will never understand and it is both unfortuntate and probably a blessing.

I will never understand why you have to tell some people some things 10 times before they'll actually process it. Or why men really think they know about women, when they…

If you haven't heard about this story, WHERE have you been hiding? It's on every major publication across the country. People are buzzing left and right and this chick has even started making radio appearances. Not only has this girl been busted on a supposed prostitution charge, but she is also in trouble for assaulting her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, whom he also helped beat up! She has a longer wrap-sheet than most at her young age. What other foolywang has this girl gotten into? The list…

Today is one of those days where nothing is flowing. Nobody is making sense and it's perfectly ok with them. I have so many questions about "how to" help, do etc that I don't know where to begin... or want to do anything for that matter. I just want to find my "Happy Place" in my mental space and call it a day.

1. My boyfriend - the dreamer/money-making planner... smh. I want to support all of his ideas and wants and dreams. I really do. But he moves so fast…

Man, today I posted a cinch cast on this very subject. Now I am separated, and about to get a divorce. However, I have a friend that I have been talking to. He already knows my hatred of dating, and never getting married again, or even interacting with members of the opposite sex, so it is not like this friend didn't already know my views. He still went out there on a limb and asked to take me out today to dinner and a movie. I said ok,…